We are having ours a week after we some back. Very laid back. Food, drinks, fun and friends. We rented basically a huge pavillion at the park (big lodge with room inside and out). We expect probably over 250 people. We are having it catered. Activities for kids if people chose to bring them. We anticipate it will be a big party that will go most of the day. Always remember...do what you want. This is your time. FI and I are the only ones going to Jamaica to be married. This will be our time to celebrate with everyone back at home.