Okay Ladies, I might be crossing a line here, but I really don't know where else to turn...
Mods, feel free to delete this thread if I'm breaking a rule of any kind!
FI and I have had a problem getting "physical" for a while now. It's bothered me for so long, but I'm actually questioning my future with him because of it. It's not that he can't physically do it, just that he never really wants it from me. He looks at girls on the internet and I know he takes care of himself, but it's always about 2 months or so before we do it together... It's been like this for years- but not always. We even made our New Year's Resolution to get physical more often! It's now September and I think we've done it like 4 times.
I don't want to sound bitchy, I truly love him SO much. He is a wonderful man and is everywhere else completely perfect, but I want to work on this! I've tried initiating but the few times I've tried, I get shut down so I don't want to initiate every time! It's a total ego blow when he says no!
Girls, a physical relationship is kind of important! I know no relationship is perfect and this is our only true problem. What to do?!?!?
PS I tried to make this as appropriate as possible! I'm so sorry if I've offended anyone!