Jean-Marcus, you hang in there. Your perfect girl WILL come along. You've got great attributes, and goodness knows we all love you here on the forum! Some of us just get lucky and find our soulmate earlier than others. I've been married to my best friend for almost 31 years, and yes, we are still outrageously spontaneous! To celebrate our last anniversary we went ziplining through a rainforest and rappelling down a waterfall. When you find "the one", you'll know it and it will be good!