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  1. Crazy, I didn't know you were having problems, but I'm glad you are happy now...it's almost time!
  2. I'm so sorry! Air Jamaica is possibly the worst airline we've ever flown, going and coming home. They didn't cancel our flights but the plane was very dated and the crew was less than hospitable...and it's hard for me to speak negatively about anything related to Jamaica because we love Jamaica, but it's true from our experience. All we could do was laugh so we didn't get upset. Anyway, if it's not too late to change carriers I wouldn't try and change your mind!
  3. Have you checked our vendor marketplace for photographers? Vendor Marketplace - Best Destination Wedding Forum Also, if you search the site (above, right) you will find a great deal of reviews and recommendations. Thank you
  4. Yep, sadly this seems to be the norm around here. It happened to me as well. I wonder if this happens to people having "traditional" weddings as well or if it just happens to us lucky destination brides? As much as it stinks you'll have to follow up...and hope your guests tell the truth when they say they are coming...that's a thread of it's own
  5. Andrea the size is great and I love love love your siggy!
  6. Thanks, Tammy. I'll try to get creative with my lack of snow lol.
  7. I agree that many OOT bag items are things people bring anyway or things that are free in hotel rooms, and that local flavor is way better. I also agree with MarieSam that it would require waiting until you get in town to get the local items and she's right, time flies and things are hectic enough once you get there. Say you have 50 guests...think of getting in town, going shopping, and lugging back 50 bottles of rum, 50 cakes, 50 bags of coffee, 50 mugs, etc. It's not impossible but it makes for a lot of work when you could be visiting with your guests or relaxing before the wedding. In ours we included things like dominoes, cards, waterproof neck safes, etc. that people enjoyed and didn't bring with them. A mix of fun and local is great if you can work it out.
  8. That is tough, but a happy husband makes for a happy marriage so let him pursue this and see what happens. The timing may work out just right, and if not, we will be here to help you scramble and figure it all out
  9. No such thing as a ridiculously long review here, we love them! Great job and congrats on the wedding
  10. Count your blessings! Safe travels and happy eating
  11. Thank you all for understanding Quote: Originally Posted by Maura I have to tell you, I’ve read several of the notes that banned members have written both in the past and recently, and they completely twist the facts so people feel sorry for them. Don’t feel sorry for them. They knowingly & willingly broke forum rules which led to their priveleges being revoked. We run a tight ship with vendors so that you DON’T get spammed, solicited, etc. etc. We do this for YOU – to make this a safe & productive place for all members. When there are people who disrupt the community by breaking rules, plain & simple, they will be removed. Good point, Maura. This happens quite often and it is inconsiderate of a banned member to put an active member in the position of having to choose sides or play one against the other. Don't fall victim to their manipulation of the facts and your feelings. They broke the rules and got banned. Period.
  12. On behalf of the administration here at BDW I would like to to explain what it means when a member is banned from the forum. This is a free forum for brides and grooms planning a destination wedding. Membership is contingent upon adherence to the forum rules. As you can imagine, a forum without rules would be chaotic so the rules are in place to protect everyone. Vendors are totally welcome to join the forum provided that they adhere to our vendor rules, which are explicitly stated. Banning is done at the discretion of the administrator and moderators of this forum and is based upon violations of forum rules. No member is banned arbitrarily or frivolously, no matter what you may gather from the threads you read and no matter what the banned member may tell you after the fact. We do not disclose private messages between ourselves and members that lead up to the bannings, so from the outside looking in it may be difficult to understand why a member got banned. We ask that you trust our judgement and not question the decisions made to keep this forum running smoothly. If a member has been banned there have been issues at play that you are most likely not aware of so please respect the decison making. There is little to no tolerance for poor attitudes or snide remarks directed at BDW administration. Again, this is a free forum and as such, members are free to leave on their own at any time if they do not agree with forum policies and procedures. There are no surprises here. Tammy (the host, administrator, and founder of BDW) runs the forum at no cost to you. ~~ If you do not understand the rules and/or choose not to follow them you may be banned. ~~ If you choose to badger the administration about the rules and what you think they should be, you may be banned. ~~You may not get a warning before being banned. Or your temporary ban may be your warning before a complete ban. We stand to gain nothing by banning members for no good reason. This is a forum where a diverse body of brides, grooms, and vendors is appreciated. We share with and learn from eachother. We appreciate our members and their cooperation with the policies here at BDW. All moderators have the following thread in their signature. This may answer other questions members have: http://bestdestinationwedding.com/fo...k-forum-32313/
  13. Glad to have you back and glad you were gone for such an excellent reason!!!
  14. Yikes! The air quality was bad where I live and I wasn't even close...poor people
  15. How cool is that? And red light green light - flashback!!!! That was the game when we were kids too!
  16. Lit one too, thanks for posting Yari!
  17. I haven't heard the cd yet, but Samantha I remember you saying you were going to Oprah...what a cool episode to see live! Quote: Originally Posted by Jacqueline beyonce is singer... she is married to jay-z, who s a rapper I'm thinking he knew that but was trying to be funny?
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