I am going through the exact same thing! We have people trying to bribe us to have our wedding somewhere else. We have prayed about it a lot and we have decided that we are going to have our wedding as planned. The wedding is not about everyone else it is about my fiance and I. This is where we want to get married and where it is going to make us happy and if it comes down to just him and I then we will be just as happy. Everyone seems to forget about the point of the wedding sometimes when they get all wrapped up in the details. You dont want to look back one day and regret moving your wedding to another location. You want to remember your wedding as you visioned it with you and your husband. That is what your going to remember the day you married your best friend.
I mean traveling to any foreign country is dangerous. Of course when traveling to any foreign country there are certain precautions that need to be taken. The media has blown all of these events way out of proportion, if you look more in detail at these events that are listed they are all incorporated with the drug cartel. I live in Texas and majority of the danger is right by our border cities! We have had so many killings within our American cities near the border and you dont see them exploiting that! Majority of the problems are in the border cities, Monterrey, & several other cities that are listed on travel.state website. It is your personal choice on what you would like to do but there are many weddings going on that have had no problems. The problems will probably continue to occur you just need to be smart and alert and do your homework so you wont put people in harms way. Please see the link below for the most accurate source of info from the U.S. Department of State. This website is http://travel.state.gov/ and it has travel warnings and alerts about where it is not safe to travel and advice about what precautions to take when you do travel to places including Mexico