We got married on July 7, 2010 in Varadero Cuba. 30 of our friends and family joined us. Because we have family and friends spread all over the place we decided to do an open house which we are having in mid-September. So far we have about 60ish guests coming to that. The main issue is my siblings. I have three brothers and none of them could make it to my wedding because of kids, money etc. They are quite upset that we had our wedding in Cuba and they are more upset that we are having our open house in my home town (where I have been living for the last 5 years). They live 3 hours away and have declined the invitation for the open house. So now my parents (who came to Cuba) have offered to book a restaurant for a dinner for just our side of the family to smooth things over with my siblings. My question is should I give them all something, like a favour as a token of appreciation? There will be 10 adults and 5 kids. I want to make them feel special as well. Any ideas on what I can get them as a favour or a little inexpensive gift? Do we bring our wedding photos and video for them to view, or would this just rub it in and hit a sore spot?