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The night before.....???

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#141 helenk

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 08:46 AM

Haven't decided yet. Nor have we talked about it. I like the idea of spending the night before with my friends, but we also live together so it would be weird not sleeping with him beside me. I'll have to think about this one...

#142 BusyBee280

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 10:19 AM

I talked with my FI about this one, and he said not sleeping together the night before is balongna- I wouldn't mind going about it either way, but I think were going to end up staying in the same room. The resort does offer one free room for a member of the wedding the night before though---

#143 stefadile

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Posted 09 June 2014 - 11:48 AM

We're not going to be staying together, I'll stay at the hotel, and he'll stay at his Parents place.... my sister will come up to my room and have girly night! :-)

#144 nikkicraig10

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Posted 09 June 2014 - 12:07 PM

Another point I might add, is that I want to get the best, most restful sleep I can possibly get, before my wedding. A slumber party with the girls, (although it sounds fun!) is probably not going to meet the best sleep criteria. I've been living with my fiance for over 5 years, and next to him is where I sleep best, so that is another reason why we won't separate. I don't want to be yawning at 9pm at my reception! or have bags under my eyes, lol!

#145 ASAtobe

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Posted 11 June 2014 - 07:31 AM

I live with my fiance but we are not going to sleep together the night before the wedding...We actually plan on not sleeping together two nights before!! I'm having an all girls night with my MOH and sister and sister in laws! I'm so excited about this because I get to have girls night mixed with a wedding and then a whole week of time alone with just me and my new husband. I think whatever is comfortable for the couple is what should be done!

Plus I know the anticipation of seeing me will kill him if we dont' see each other until we get married!! Which will make me sooo happy lol! I'm all about the grand entrance!

#146 stefadile

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Posted 11 June 2014 - 09:18 AM

@ASAtobe I love the girly cocktails night, I'm hoping to do the same with my MOH, bridesmaids, and future in-laws :-) :-)

#147 SuchALady777

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Posted 19 July 2014 - 08:24 AM

We'll be on a cruise. So it's kinda unavoidable to see him but I may sneak out in the middle of the night and leave a note that says "the next time I see you, it will be to say I do"

#148 hyoungquist

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Posted 22 August 2014 - 03:21 PM

Not sure what we will do yet either but I do like the thought of the "anticipation" before walking down the aisle

#149 calgarybride2015

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Posted 22 August 2014 - 03:57 PM

It's not 100% decided but I am pretty sure we won't be sleeping together the night before.


Since we will be in Mexico still deciding who will swap with us (ie maybe Fiance and my son can sleep with his brother, and his wife can come sleep with me and my daughter)...  or maybe a single friend can have us join her.


I like the idea of not seeing eachother until the ceremony! 


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#150 LauraM

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Posted 24 August 2014 - 06:50 AM

We will be staying together... I wouldn't get any sleep if he wasn't there! He's the only thing that calms my anxiety!

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