No engagement ring syndrome
Posted 30 March 2010 - 10:36 AM
So I think Valentine's Day, My birthday (July), His birthday (Sept), Our Anniversary (Oct), Christmas.... NO... New Year's Eve LOL. And all that time I had my friends asking me everyday if he proposed ughhh
But I did start looking into venues, and dresses, and colors, and BM in Jan 2008, it wasn't til he proposed that I changed my mind and decided to do a DW
So hang in there, and if you want to give him a little hint.. get these.. I almost purchased them too LOL
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Posted 30 March 2010 - 10:37 AM
A couple of months ago in the kitchen he asked "so when are we getting married?" We teased back and forth and I told him he needed to ask me another question first. His response was he thought he just did and I teased back then my answer was "I don't know because if that was THE question the answer was no." From there we have started planning for Jan of 2011 but it is weird with no formal proposal yet and no ring. I know it is coming,and that recession has not helped but nothing seems quite real without it.
I too long for that story. The one above is not what I want to tell our kids. I keep reminding myself too that what matters is we will be married one way or the other and I don't need a story to know that I love him and he loves me right back. There are daily stories everyday that demonstrate that...
Posted 31 March 2010 - 02:26 PM
I guess I do look at it that we have love and a really great commitment to one another. He's a good guy, I just wish I had a story like 99% of other brides to be.
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Posted 31 March 2010 - 02:43 PM
|Originally Posted by luciel2820|
Posted 31 March 2010 - 05:17 PM
Posted 12 April 2010 - 04:20 PM
I am staying positive (positive I'll never see a ring) lol.
We move into our new home in a few weeks right around my birthday so my life is happy and full.
Yet, even though our destination wedding is in February 2011 we're officially getting married in August 2010. 4 1/2 months away.
I'll leave the guy alone, he's getting a lot of pressure from our friends and random people looking at my hand. I feel like I've taken the 'proposal' away from him by planning our DW but there's obviously still a chance for a surprise.
Love the Victoria Secret idea! It would work in a second.
Posted 12 April 2010 - 04:27 PM
Posted 17 April 2010 - 03:47 AM
| Originally Posted by jealousy88 |
Girls, Make those men give you your rings, you all deserve them.
yes you love him, yes he loves you, yes THAT is the most important thing BUT....you deserve a ring and a proposal...for you, not for anyone else. don't feel bad that he's being pressured, he should be!
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