Only married 7 weeks and heading for divorce :(
Posted 25 January 2010 - 10:01 AM
Posted 25 January 2010 - 10:45 AM
| Originally Posted by JuneWeddingDreams |
My heart goes out to you...I feel anxious for you! I went through this with my first marriage...although he was doing similar things with one of my good friends. In the end, he needs to give you what you are asking for (passwords, work out of a different location, etc) until he has built your trust up again. If he isn't willing to do those little things he obviously is hiding something and/or doesn't want to change his ways.
Have you asked him how he would feel if he saw similar emails that you were sending to another man? I am sure he wouldn't like it at all. Out of respect for you he needs to do what you ask to build that trust back up! Hang in there! I feel like I am going through this all over again with you...it is truly the worst feeling in the world. Your heart sinks...in the end...you need to do what you are comfortable with and what is best for you! You know him better than the rest of us do...trust what your gut tells you!
I will be saying a few prayers for you tonight! Lots of hugs!
I think going and talking to someone together is a great idea - i'm not sure reading all of the emails between him and the other girl is such a good one - it will do nothing but hurt you. you already have your suspicions and evidence...now is the time to go and try to save your marriage, if you think it's worth it. As you can see you have lots of support and love from all of us here, and hopefully from your people at home as well.
good luck and lots of hugs!
Posted 25 January 2010 - 10:52 AM
Don't give up, but don't be desperate.. good luck chica. xx
Posted 25 January 2010 - 10:59 AM
Posted 25 January 2010 - 11:02 AM
Posted 25 January 2010 - 11:05 AM
Posted 25 January 2010 - 11:14 AM
I agree with everyone else that you should seek counseling. You guys can't get through this alone - your trust in him is crushed and he could possibly have some issues where he needs attention from other women, both issues CAN be helped with counseling.
My heart truly goes out to you and I hope you can happiness again. big hugs.
Posted 25 January 2010 - 11:21 AM
Obviously the situation is not good right now but whether you decide to separate or stay together, definitely do what is best for you.
Posted 25 January 2010 - 11:30 AM
Sending you lots of hugs during this rough time and hoping you can work through this.
On a completely separate note ~ hoping this will make you smile ~ you were a BEAUTIFUL bride and your pictures are amazing. Not knowing what this admin looks like, she can't hold a candle next to you, regardless.
Posted 25 January 2010 - 11:48 AM
0 user(s) are reading this topic
0 members, 0 guests, 0 anonymous users