Double Wedding...sort of
Posted 17 January 2010 - 05:54 PM
What do you think? I don't see many negatives in there as long as the weddings are at least 2 days apart, but I wanted to see what others thought of the idea. We haven't started planning but I figured we could both do some research, and if we can't agree on a date/location, then that would be an easy way to say no to it.
Thanks for your help!
Posted 17 January 2010 - 06:26 PM
Posted 17 January 2010 - 07:20 PM
In the end, you have to decide if you are willing to share the spotlight during the most important week of your life.
Posted 17 January 2010 - 07:29 PM
But if not, it could create problems. People could try to hear about your plans, and then let her know (intentionally or not) about them too. You'll be playing the comparison game and even though you may not have wanted it, you could find yourself competing for attention, ideas, input, etc.
Like I said, it's different if you two are very close that it wouldn't matter either way. Also, keep in mind she may invite ppl you may not know that well who feel they could come to your wedding too, since it's 2 days apart.
The view overlooking Kingston... January 2009. One Love!!
Posted 17 January 2010 - 08:03 PM
Posted 17 January 2010 - 10:18 PM
Personally, I would love it if one of my close friends would have their wedding a few days around mine. It would make is easier to deal with a lot of the stuff that you would normally have to shoulder alone.
Posted 17 January 2010 - 10:36 PM
Posted 17 January 2010 - 10:55 PM
Posted 17 January 2010 - 11:20 PM
Ultimately it's up to you! If you can agree on a general location then I say go for it!
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