Bridesmaids were a nightmare!!!
Posted 13 October 2009 - 10:31 PM
They became an absolute nightmare come Sunday. They ignored me all day pretty much, had me in tears. My fiance went down to talk to them, and finally told them to get out of our house they were being way to disrespectful. They turned around and locked the door on him. He asked them three times to open the door or he would kick it down (military...temper, yes.) They refused to listen and he kicked the door in. It wasn't a hard kick btw, the door was held in by 2/6 screws and was VERY cheap.
They then left and called a girl they can't stand to come pick them up and spend the night with them. And in return called the cops to file theft charges against us fore things they left in our home. Needless to say this week has been a nightmare for me, including all the drama with mutual friends. I have had many friends cut ties with me because they are spreading vicious lies, and I just don't have the energy anymore to worry about it.
Now I'm left with one bridesmaid...and I'm kinda worried about her dropping out as well just bc of this. We have 3 guys on my fiances side...and I have one now. I would have asked my sisters to fill in, but sadly they can't make it to the wedding.
I know it only matters that my fiance and myself are there but I'm seriously hurt that this would happen, and they would treat me this way.
Did anyone here not have attendants stand at their wedding? I'm feeling iffy having three on his side, and only one on mine that I was thinking they could just sit with the normal guests. I just don't knwo what to do.
Posted 13 October 2009 - 11:28 PM
maybe there is something else going on with them?
Posted 13 October 2009 - 11:37 PM
I would probably explain to the GM what happened (which I'm sure they know) and just say that you guys decided to now have just one of each stand with you, but you still want them to be a part of your day... maybe give a poem/reading to say, MC or something?? And remember, they are guys they shrug everything off (unlike us girls).
Did they even try to contact you since? Anybody who's going to believe soley what they say isn't a real friend of yours either.
Be strong, hold your head high, you are better than that behaviour.
Keep us updated.
Posted 14 October 2009 - 01:05 AM
Good luck, I hope you get this all sorted out!
Posted 14 October 2009 - 02:48 AM
I don't really have a solution for you but don't let those girls get you down too much. They aren't worth the stress. I'm sure you and your FI will be able to work something out in time.
Posted 14 October 2009 - 02:49 AM
Good Luck girl! :hugs:
Posted 14 October 2009 - 07:51 AM
I know what you mean about a military temper, lol - my FI has one of those too!!
I hope everything works out for you - so sorry this happened!
Posted 14 October 2009 - 08:01 AM
Posted 14 October 2009 - 08:50 AM
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