My entire family paid in full, they even paid early enought to get the early booking bonus, all of my friends have paid. Evertons family, no one has paid! I mean no one! Not his mother, brother, sister, gradmother, or anyone else, in total there are 12 people who owe their money. I have tried all week to reach them and none of them bothered calling me back, I finally get a hold of Everton's brother and he says that he can't come he doesn't have the money. I talked to his mom, and she says that none of them think they can come up with the money, are you F#%#ing kidding me!! She says in her Jamican way, No Worries, we will figure it out, we won't miss the wedding, we just can't pay this week. Well when do they expect to pay, I told her they are all going to lose the deposits, and then their seats will go back into the system, we do need to worry! Everton's aunt isn't even here she went to Jamaica this week and sent me an e-mail saying she hopes she isn't inconveniencing me, she will pay later
They are messing up my rooming lists, I have some single friends staying sharing rooms with some of these people, how am I suppose to tell my friends they need to pay a single supplement, I can't we will end up having to pay it. I also upgraded one of our childs to adult fare so E mom could have her own room, now I am out that money! I also have gone to alot of work making up my oot bags, I ordered cups and fans for everyone, and parasols for all the women. I have also sent my wc my dinner #'s.
The other thing I am annoyed about is E mom invited her best friend, who is bringing her husband, and 2 bratty grandchildren. I was not happy about this at the time but I just decided to deal, and make the best of it, now they hve paid and I am going to be stuck with these people I barely know who I originally didn't want at the wedding, and I am sure they aren't going to be happy either cosidering they will know no one.
I just can't believe how inconsiderate these people are, I feel bad for Everton this will mean no one in his family will be at our wedding. I feel that they didn't care enough about us getting married to bother saving, I don't get it. We have always had issues over his family, because they never liked the fact that I was white, they are not close to our son, they don't even remember his birthday, and I was hoping this would change things by spending time with us, and Liam, and they would learn to love him.
I don't understand how grown people with jobs and houses can not come up with $1000.00. I really feel that it would have been better if they had said no right from the beginning, then I wouldn't be so upset, and neither would Everton. E tries to find excuses for his family and I don't want to hear it, they have never seemed to take the wedding seriously, this trip seemed like it was going to be more about partying to them then our wedding.
I am having a bar-b-q soon to hand out our oot bags, what am I suppose to do give them the bags anyway, I don't know how I am even going to be able to look at all of them right now!! I am just so angry and hurt.
Kelly~
