I was wondering this when we booked our hotel since it is an all inclusive and some might want to go to an A La Cart hotel. I hope i don't run into this issue and am making it clear that we want all of our guest at our hotel (& so that we can spend as much time with them as possible)
The kid issue can be tricky. Its kind of unfair to not pick up the tab when they don't even have an option to stay your hotel to avoid the fee. I would ask your hotel if they have a sister hotel that the kids could stay at and avoid the entrance fee for the wedding. I saw that some of the hotels had a hopper type pass to get them in, just not sure which hotels did they were.
Edited by KathyandEthan, 11 May 2014 - 05:41 PM.