We all moved in together 7 weeks ago.
It's been an adjustment for all of us, including the cats, who used to sleep with me. My female has been crying at night, keeping FI up, and he is not happy with all the fur all over the house. He is an animal person, but not an "animal in my house" person. He says he thought he could deal with it, but he can't. HIS suggestion to the issue is for me to get an apartment with the cats so I can keep them and visit them whenever I want...I just moved out of my apartment to live with him...
THeir food and water and litter are in the basement and I'm ok with putting them in there at night, but now he's saying that that's not good enough. I'm really not sure what to do now. He's not understanding that we're still in an adjustment period and it's going to take her a while to get used to the new living arrangements.
I do have someone I totally trust to take them if it comes to that, with the ability to take them back if I want to. It's the only person I trust them with that I know will love them and care for them as much as I do. When I told FI that I was going to give them up, then he said he didn't want me to do that...that he didn't want to cause me all this pain...hes all over the place, I'm all over the place...I've been crying all day about this.
Has anyone ever been in a situation like this before? Any advice, experience..words of wisdom
