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#11 BillysBride

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    Posted 22 March 2009 - 11:40 PM

    I've been where you are and know the kind of pain you are in. It's multiplied by the fact that it's not just you..you have a child in all this that you are worried for and about. I am so sorry you are going through this. Just know that life does go on and in just a few days your mind may be clear enough to either let go completely or decide whether you want to give things another chance. It is SO difficult when family/friends know all or even just some of the details about what's going on. It becomes not just about the two of you, but about people who love you and are worried about you and adding their two cents whether you're asking or not. Just try to focus on you and London...tune all else out and try to get back to the place inside yourself where you can think of the future that you want and what that will include. Whatever YOU think will make you happy, not short term but down the road.

    Hang in there..I'm saying a prayer for you.

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    #12 Jacilynda

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      Posted 22 March 2009 - 11:55 PM

      Hun, I am sooo sorry!

      I was just wondering where you had been! Hang in there and keep London close. When times are really hard London can always make them better! Just take one day at a time, sometimes 1 hour at a time. Eventually life will fall into place. We are always here for you!

      #13 big3n09

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        Posted 22 March 2009 - 11:57 PM

        i'm really sorry for all the pain you are going through right now i hope things get better sooner than later. try to relax and not stress and whatever decisions you need to make for you, your daughter, and the future will come to you in due time.
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        #14 Cindy&London

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          Posted 22 March 2009 - 11:59 PM

          Thank you so much ladies.. it really is a tough time right now. I'm glad I can talk to people who are being objective. It's really hard hearing what everyone else thinks and what everyone else thinks is best for me. I need to do what my heart tells me, but right now I'm terrified to put my heart out there. It's in a million pieces right now.. I need time to heal... just not sure where to begin.

          #15 Yari

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            Posted 23 March 2009 - 12:10 AM

            I am so sorry!

            #16 MarieSam

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              Posted 23 March 2009 - 01:37 AM

              Oh hon, my heart goes out to you ~ it seems like you've been through a whirlwind. I am so sorry I hope things can somehow clear up and give you a better sense of where to go from here, you're definitely in all of our thoughts. Please keep us posted, and know we're all here if you need to vent or seek advice.

              #17 litl_april

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                Posted 23 March 2009 - 01:48 AM

                Ah, sweetie, I'm so sorry about all the weight you seem to be carrying on your shoulders right now. I know it must be so tough to be dealing with the loss of your beloved dog and then having your FI hurt you like he's done. I understand you trying to be strong for London, but do remember, take care of yourself. Most importantly, know that it's okay to grieve. You'll be in my thoughts, and again, so sorry for what you are going through. *Lots of Hugs*

                #18 Jenamie

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                  Posted 23 March 2009 - 02:43 AM

                  I'm so sorry hun

                  I dont have words of wisdom, but I can tell you a bit about me... I freaked out about a month ago and was convenced I was threw with everything... the wedding and my guy.

                  Truth was I was just scared, alot of things will be changing in my life and it all got out of control way too fast.

                  First off you need to find out what is best for you and your daughter and then maybe you can lissten to him and find out why he sudenly when nuts, maybe its just fear... maybe he is not ready... maybe he is a jack @$$ and your better off with out... but whatever it is you need to find out and give yourself a chance to heal and move forward.

                  PM me if you need a sholder I'm up all nights anyways (normaly the lonely hours)
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                  #19 fudgie

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                    Posted 23 March 2009 - 07:12 AM

                    I am so sorry for you, what you are going through and the position you are in right now. I can't imagine how hard it must be. Only you truly know how you feel right now and your history together. You have been through alot and I would suggest waiting a little while before making any decisions, your head must be spinning and things coming at you at all angles, I find it is always best to wait and put things in perspective. Whatever happens and whatever decision you make I hope it all works out for you and your family.
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                    #20 TammyB

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                      Posted 23 March 2009 - 07:34 AM

                      I'm so sorry, maybe just give it some time and see what happens. Maybe he just got cold feet and things will be back on track (if you want them to be) down the road. Just take your time and really figure out what "you" want. Big hugs..

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