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Everything posted by big3n09

  1. Just stoppin by to say Hello!!!! Just celebrated 2 years
  2. I totally agree I always avoided relationships with guys with kids but low and behold my husband got in the door lol
  3. Sent a message for the lip balms
  4. Hi Negritadr! Welcome and congrats!
  5. Well well well Teamboyd2012 I hope you know how to pray! We have similar situation only the ages are different. I'm serious about the prayer but I sometimes wonder if I would have came in my SK lives when they were a little younger if that would have made it better. I will say this I've been in the picture for going on 8 years now the oldest is 18(girl) and we have the best relationship of them all. The 16 and 13 year old both boys are in there teenage phase of life so those are the issues I'm dealing with. The youngest is 7(boy), their mother was pregnant when we first met, they all have the same mother, I don't have any relationship with him. I have grown a lot, some things don't bother me the same as they use to. I have set boundaries for myself and the dynamics of our situation. I will not be unhappy, stressed, or disrespected PERIOD, when those things come into play we all have a problem. So what I do is try my best and do what I can to not have any of those emotions come into play. It probably sounds easier said than done and it may not come over night but have faith and love and you'll be fine.
  6. $25 total for 3 bags of shells and 3 sets of napkins(150) and shipping. I have a PayPal account so if you're still interested I can send you my info to make the payment.
  7. I'll check today at the post office and let you know
  8. I have 30 pages of the casual style pages that did not get used at my AHR for sale. PM me if interested!
  9. I'm positive I have 4 but I might have another one, 5 total. I need to look through all my stuff that was packed up at the end of the night.
  10. I'll send you a pm so we can discuss
  11. These were special made from an Etsy seller. They're great for recognizing parents, grand parents, children, or just anyone special.
  12. Send me a message if you want anything, each item below $5
  13. Send me a message if your interested in anything if your close enough we can meet halfway instead having to pay shipping Just realized you can't see that bag of shells good but it's just a smaller bag of shells Got these from Etsy special order never got used I have 2 more that are out of the plastic but wasn't worn
  14. Hello! Hope all is well with everyone I need some help, hopefully I don't get in trouble for posting this here. I seen on the site a sand ceremony that included like several people, DH has 4 kids so I need that wording for our reception but I can't find it now. Have any of you used it or know where I can find it, it's sooooo many threads under sand ceremony.
  15. Coconoir I'm happy things have gotten better for you all!!! Futuremrstgun said it best....say some prayers!!! I just said to myself I guess it had to be one or two people at odds with our marriage, just enough to keep me on my knees praying. I'm also very thankful that it's just one or two, sometimes I just revel in the fact that it could be so much worse but it's not. I've heard of some and even know of some straight horror stories, my situation is what it is and more than anything I'm thankful it's not worse.
  16. Aaawww Sarah TD don't worry they'll figure it out and see for themselves hopefully sooner than later. We had the same situation and we are planning a AHR for August and to be honest the kids may not even come but the show must go on. I look at it as it's not my fault that people want to be difficult and cause confusion I can only try and do but so much. Don't worry maintain you happiness and peace, good luck with everything.
  17. I agree and as I stated before when things become more of a reality some people have a hard time dealing with it. I have had a few people change their view of our relationship now that it's serious, I'm like what did you think or why are you so shocked but I guess when the reality sets in or things become official people feel different. I guess what happens is whatever people have their hopes set on when it doesn't happen that way they have a hard time dealing, which is understandable but life goes on. Yes, time is really the only healer and way he will see the good in the situation and it's not what he may be painting in his head. Both father and mother could talk to him and provide some reassurance, that may help some. I'm sure it'll get better.
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