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#1 yamille

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    Posted 28 February 2009 - 11:03 PM

    We are only having a MOH (my sis) and a BM (his bro). Does this mean that the BM holds both rings and handles that business? it seems like a silly question but I am just going over the details. Would he just hold in his pants pocket since he won't be wearing a suit?

    What is everyone planning- or what did you do?

    .. becuase I have lost all ability to make my own decidions without validation from all the wonderful women on this site.

    thanks!

    #2 Yari

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      Posted 28 February 2009 - 11:06 PM

      For me, our best man held the rings throughout the ceremony and then busted them out when needed.

      #3 Jamaica0619

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        Posted 28 February 2009 - 11:30 PM

        I have personally seen it done two ways. You could have the MOH hold (usually she places it on one of her fingers) the soon-to-be DH ring while the BM holds yours. Or the BM can hold on to both rings (usually in his pants pocket. We are having a ring bearer, but a combination of a 4 year old and sand and expensive rings does not work well in my mind, so I plan to give them to the BM to hold.
        Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend. ~ Albert Camas

        #4 Jamaica0619

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          Posted 28 February 2009 - 11:30 PM

          I have personally seen it done two ways. You could have the MOH hold (usually she places it on one of her fingers) the soon-to-be DH ring while the BM holds yours. Or the BM can hold on to both rings (usually in his pants pocket. We are having a ring bearer, but a combination of a 4 year old and sand and expensive rings does not work well in my mind, so I plan to give them to the BM to hold.
          Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend. ~ Albert Camas

          #5 -Kate-

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            Posted 28 February 2009 - 11:36 PM

            We just gave them to the wedding coordinator who was doing the translation of the ceremony.

            #6 ErinB

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              Posted 01 March 2009 - 01:09 AM

              double post

              #7 ErinB

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                Posted 01 March 2009 - 01:09 AM

                I had MOH hold my husbands ring and the BM held mine.

                #8 tvt

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                  Posted 01 March 2009 - 01:20 AM

                  my MOH held DHs ring, and the BM held my ring

                  #9 yamille

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                    Posted 01 March 2009 - 01:53 AM

                    Thanks ladies. Having the BM hold mine so he can pass off to FI makes sense and vice versa.


                    Quote:
                    Originally Posted by Yari
                    For me, our best man held the rings throughout the ceremony and then busted them out when needed.
                    Yari congratulations! I just saw your new ticker- how exciting. I haven't seen you around in a while I guess. Hope you are well

                    Thanks for the input guys.

                    #10 Ana

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                    Posted 01 March 2009 - 02:34 AM

                    I am going to have the best man hold my ring to pass to my FI and my MOH will hold my FI`s ring to pass over to me.




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