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Gift from couple...who have now broken up!

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#1 MelissaH

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    Posted 07 April 2007 - 09:36 PM

    A couple we invited to our wedding decided that half way into their trip they no longer wanted to be together because the prospects of some of our other wedding guests looked much better (ouch )...the thing is, they gave us a joint gift....so when I'm thanking them...what do I do? Send them each a card or just send a card to the one we invited to the wedding (the girlfriend was his +1, but she's still a friend)? Help this poor girl out...these thank you cards are going to give me an aneurysm hehe

    #2 amyh


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      Posted 07 April 2007 - 09:39 PM

      hey melissa, that must have made for some juicy drama!

      I think you should def send seperate thank you cards. She did travel all that way and most likely, she picked the gift. (men don't know how to handle these things, haha.)

      #3 MelissaH

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        Posted 07 April 2007 - 09:43 PM

        It was an interesting situation LOL

        Imagine sharing a room for half a week with someone who's just broken up with you because he's interested in not just one...but several other girls? He would so not be waking up in the morning if I were in her shoes :P

        The really tough part was that the other girls he's interested in are all related to me and are all just as interested. Touchy :

        #4 -Kate-

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          Posted 07 April 2007 - 09:48 PM

          Sweet lord - now I'm SUPER sad I wasn't at your wedding. Drama!

          Send one to each. They both made the trek and gave the gift.

          #5 MelissaH

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            Posted 07 April 2007 - 09:50 PM

            What kind of wedding would it be without a little drama? Our families didn't punch each other out, so something else had to go wrong haha oh well...such is life :)

            #6 BEACHBRIDEMA

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              Posted 07 April 2007 - 09:50 PM

              Wow thats crazy, poor girl. I would send one to each seperately
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              #7 TammyWright


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              Posted 07 April 2007 - 10:05 PM

              i want to hear more juicy details...i say send a thank you to each one.

              my drama was funny...we had a promiscious gal that tried to hook up with EVERYONE...married guys too...she made quite and impression...and one of the wives said "i am going to punch her lights out!" and the girl found out and spent the rest of the trip hiding in her room.

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              #8 gkashmira

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                Posted 07 April 2007 - 10:13 PM

                hee hee hee... that's a funny story Tammy! My friend's twin sister always tries to make out with all the guys whenever she gets really drunk. It's actually sort of hilarious... she really is a nice girl - just lonely I guess.

                Anyway, I agree send a separate card to each. Wow, if I was that girl I would have murdered him... poor thing!
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                #9 Christine

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                Posted 07 April 2007 - 11:19 PM

                I agree with everyone else-send two thank yous-and thanks for the soap opera drama for the evening!
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                #10 Nrvsbride

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                  Posted 07 April 2007 - 11:42 PM

                  Def send out two cards. Poor girl that is awful. I would have died of embarassment. Gosh guys are such slime sometimes. He should have at least waited until they got back! He didn't need to humilate her like that in the middle of Mexico. Tammy if your peanut is a boy you better raise him to be nice to girls. LOL.


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