| Originally Posted by rabbitnow |
We had trips planned for excursion, fishing trips and bond fire planned - now I have found out that Cancun does not allow bondfires on the beach so we have to think of another rehersal party for everyone and figurea out how to do other excursions and fishing trips - all in the next DAY!!!!
I think it's probably best to let some of those plans go. As disappointing as it is, it's not worth it for you to drive yourself nuts trying to re-plan everything. there will be many excursions available from the resort - maybe you can just chose one and chose a day when you arrive and suggest it to your guests and whoever goes goes. Honestly, I know this is so upsetting, but I think you will just make it worse for youself it you try to re-plan everything. I am an economist so I guess I think of stuff in a cost/benefit way. I think the cost to you of stressing over this and re-plannign it is not worth the benefit of a bonfire, rehersal dinner or excursion. You could just do a rehersal dinner at the buffet restaurant, and although it won't be great as what you had previously planned, at least it will be simple and easy to organize rather than killing youself trying to put together something more complicated.
I hope I'm not upsetting you more, I'm just trying to help. I know with the position you are in it's hard to think objectively.
This message goes for all brides getting married in the next week - my advice is to abandon all detailed & complicated planning and go for a simple, easy approach so that you will be happy and enjoy your vacation and wedding rather than stressing.