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#11 DanielleNDerek

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    Posted 10 June 2008 - 08:09 PM

    i asked within a couple of weeks of our engagement
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    #12 Jen_S

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      Posted 10 June 2008 - 09:14 PM

      We asked right away since we knew who we wanted and also because if they could not make it we would have to make another choice.
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      #13 MrsFisher2B

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        Posted 10 June 2008 - 09:16 PM

        wow, thanks for all the input girls! I think I will ask them fairly soon! I just wanted to make sure there wasn't a time-type protocal

        #14 nikkianddean

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          Posted 10 June 2008 - 09:48 PM

          I think it was within a week or so...I have always known who i wanted standing with me when we got married :)

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          #15 ~*petals*~

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            Posted 10 June 2008 - 10:10 PM

            I couldn't wait either-- it was within a few weeks. I have a small bridal party so it didn't take much!

            #16 nicole.gia

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              Posted 19 June 2008 - 04:14 AM

              I had the same question. I am a 2010 bride as well and am still toying with when it is best to ask....I am thinking sooner is better than later.

              #17 Jacqueline

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                Posted 19 June 2008 - 08:04 AM

                I got engaged Dec 15th and asked a few weeks later. Like the other girls said, I was so excited!! Plus, I already knew who I wanted for sure- my sister, and Joe's two sisters. Good luck!

                #18 *Heather*


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                  Posted 19 June 2008 - 09:39 AM

                  I asked my girls about a month after...I could have done it sooner but I was waiting for FI to decide who his guys were going to be. He still hasn't decided though, so I went ahead and asked my 2 girls anyway! We'll likely have an uneven number on each side but I'm OK with that. Better than adding someone you don't want or taking away someone important just because you "have" to, IMO.

                  #19 Carolyn

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                    Posted 19 June 2008 - 09:43 AM

                    I asked my girls 3 weeks after......The FI has only asked the bestman so far... He wants to know who is coming before asking.

                    #20 kerryjbrown

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                      Posted 19 June 2008 - 10:29 AM

                      I am glad you asked this questions as FH and I have not discussed attendants yet but I can feel the girls circling waiting for me to ask and am feeling guilty....

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