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Finding the strength to continue to plan my wedding

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I am so, so sorry. If you need anything, ask. My biological dad passed away when I was pregnant and it was horrible. Please take the advice of Jamy and others and concentrate on yourself for a while. Again, if you need anything...

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Wow - what a shock to have happen only weeks after celebrating such a joyous occasion as your engagement.

 

i am truly sorry for your loss.

 

i suggest putting the wedding planning on hold - you need time to grieve and come to terms with your loss, you will know when it is the right time to begin planning again. just gather information and take it all in.

 

xoxox

alyssa

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I'm so sorry, there is nothing anyone can say that will make it better.

 

I lost my mum 8 years ago and the only way I got through it was to focus on something else, and that was getting my dad through it.

 

Grieving is a personal thing, I never needed to do it because I thought well she might not be physically here but she is here anyway so i've not really lost anything. Sounds weird but its true yeah i miss the hugs but never miss the love because it is still exactly where it always was with me.

 

Harsh but sudden was probably the best for your dad, its crap for everyone else left, but so much better than pain if he had been around.

 

Take a deep breath, get through the funeral, and plan for your future. Think of it like this. If your dad were still here he'd be really involved and would kick your arse for saying you didn't know what to do and how you were going to keep planning. He will still be there to help you and be there when you walk down the aisle just not in the way you would like.

 

Stay strong xx

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I am so so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I agree with everyone else. Don't worry about your wedding right now. Just focus on taking care of yourself and your family.

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SgtPepperette, I am so very sorry for your loss. Don't quite know what to say... I cannot even begin to imagine.

 

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family~

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