Originally Posted by skadow
My wedding is 6months away and my aid of Honer, my OLDER 40 YEAR OLD SISTER told everyone today that she just simply can not afford to come to the wedding anymore and canceled all her plans.
She is 12 years older then me, she's 40, but I swear she thinks she's still in her twenty's.
I know she would be able to afford to come if she would be a little bit more responsible with her money. She does make over 50k a year. My aunt said she is just jealous because she isn't married and wants this to be her wedding.
We are the only siblings in the family. I personally know I can get over it and look past it this, but it made my mom cry all long today and It really makes me angry, My dad left my mom about a year ago and its been really hard on her. She doesnt need my sister acting like a knob!
I haven't confronted her because I don't want to make things worst, but GRRRRRRR makes me angry she only thinks about herself.
Same thing happened with both of my sisters, pissed me off so much beacuse I went to their weddings that ended in divorce within a year, and here I am celebrating my wedding after 7 years with my FI and both my sisters are like no we think its selfish that you want us to waste our vacation time on your wedding. So now I'm not having a bridal party. Screw them.