Welcome and congratulations! Picking the resort was really tough for us as well. We knew we what we wanted, but it was difficult selecting the resort that would meet our requirements, while taking into account our guests needs as well. We looked at resorts all over the caribbean, mexico, bahamas, etc., and read a ton of reviews here and on Trip Advisor. A good travel agent will also be able to hear what the 2 of you are looking for and help narrow down the choices. In the end, we are really happy with our decision. The most important thing that we just reminded ourselves was that at the end of the day we will be married...