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FI and I love this show. We were such big fans of last season, so we just spent a weekend at the Borgata in AC, just so we could eat in the new restaurant Fornelletto. Danny (last season winner) came out and talked to us for quite a while and took pics. He says Gordon Ramsay really is like that, but chef Scott is even worse off camera. Danny is such a cool guy but I think he got screwed. He had no say in the menu or decor of Fornelletto, and just works there as a line cook, has no authority, ect. The show leads viewers to believe it will be "theirs" for at least a year.

This woman is a doll, she is coming all the way from Negil to Ocho Rios to do our pics.

Hi Shelby, I am also getting married Oct 10th. We have 10 people going with us. Sounds like you will be right around the corner. Lets hope for a great, clear day!!!

I am also going through this. Although I understand now what a financial burden it is for others when we pick destination weddings. I thought anyone who cared enough, would come but thats not always the case. We are essentially asking people to give up their vacation time, savings, purchase passports, buy plane tix, all to watch us get married. So if they decide not to we really can't be too upset. On the other hand, it is quite hillarious to watch FSIL blow through 3 vacations in the past year, take her toddlers to fine dining in NYC, then claim she can't come to Jamaica because she can't afford it. That is pure entertainmanet for years to come lol. Sometimes you gotta laugh. You and your future husband will be there. That's all that matters!

Hi, Depending on how formal your AHR is, here are 2 ideas... Blow up about 5-6 of your best wedding photos, get matching frames, and arrange them on a table by the front door of the venue, with maybe some votive candles and a centerpiece and decorate the top of the table with rose petals? (maybe thats going overboard but I can be a martha stewart clone sometimes) or Get a foam posterboard and get some scrapbook paper from Micheals or Ac Moore that is wedding themes. Glue enough of the sheets (probably about 6- to cover the board in different paterns. Then glue about a dozen 4x6 photos at different angles on top. And you can decorate the margins with glitter, or those cool scrapbook stickers, or even glue lace around the sides of the board. You can make it look very classy and elegant, and prop it up somewhere at the party. If you do this, don't forget those awesome coupons in the sunday flyers for these stores, and use a permanant glue stick. I actually may do both of these ideas. Good luck

I have spoken to a local named Diana who is in Negril. She and her husband own Digital Memories Photography. SHe has been very sweet and accomodating so far. Hopefully we can use her next month!

This whole situation is infuriating. All of the Sandals/Beaches photography I have seen ranges from downright BAD to mediocre at best. And it's not cheap, either. I wish this chain would just realize how much stress they are adding to our special day with this "no outside vendor" rule. I have determined I will get around this ridiculous restriction, somehow. I am getting married next month so I will def post when I get back!

I have seen the show. If it's true that most of their kids have stated that they don't want big families, well I think that says something right there. If they feel neglected or lost in the mix, I doubt they would be telling the tv crew that, anyway. As a parent of an 11yr old girl with autism, I see how some other women take their own and their childrens health for granted, and it makes me mad. I don't feel a woman can be a good or productive parent if her time is stretched that thin. This is why I myself, have not had another child yet, since I know my daughter requires an huge percentage of my time. I can't imagine feeling like a productive parent even if I had 4 healthy, stable kids. I also dont understand how the Duggars don't seem to mind what a physical and emotional toll it is to put your body through 9 months of pregnancy. How can she be contributing to everyday child care if she is constantly pregnant? Whatever. These are my opinions and no one should take them personally.

Quote: Originally Posted by Alyssa hhmmmm you mean like how they contribute to society doing charity and missionary work? like how they work through their church to help other people who are less fortunate than them? those bastards!! lol that is pretty ignorant IMO to say when a woman should be "grateful" and has enough children - she doesn't use welfare to feed / cloth / educate them - what the hell? Ignorant? I don't think so. This woman has 18 emotionally, developmentally, physically healthy children ALREADY and should not take that for granted. Do you know how many children are born with disabilities today? Do you know the amount of stress it causes for a family when a child has a disability, how the other children get shorted attention and other basic needs? I'm just saying, god forbid the new baby is born with down syndrome or autism. Since she is doing such a "balanced" job (ahem) with the 18 kids, what should happen if one is not perfect like the rest? Will she pass it off to one of her teenage daughters to care for, and rush to get pregnant again? Do the math...there are only 24 hours in a day, minus about 6 or 7 for sleep. These kids are lucky if they get 20 minutes each a day of individual attention from their parents.

Am I the only one who finds this disgusting? The world is already over-populated. Can you imagine if each of these 19 kids aim to "contribute" to society like their mom? Sorry, but I think she should have just been happy with the 18 she already has, and be grateful that she's still healthy.

This may be cheesy but we will only have about 12 people at the "reception" I am going to make a toast to my inlaws, thanking them for raising my new husband into the wonderful man he is today.

I agree about not putting it in the invitation. I think it's incredible tacky when an invitation comes with registry information. Anyone who cares will ask your parents or bridal party if you are registered somewhere.

Christy check out Vistaprint canvas bags first, I just ordered 6 and they were about 6.50 each. They have a palm tree/sunset design and you can have it say whatever you want. Mine say "Jamaica 2009". I wish I could post a pic but it wont let me. plus, the higher the quantity, the lower each unit cost. I cant wait to give them out soon!

I have been looking for an answer to this question for a while now. The WC will not answer it directly. Hmm, I wonder if we slip their photographer a a few hundred $$ on the side, he would just give it to us?

I did call the manger of the strore and make her personally go to the back and look for me dress. I told her the rude alteration lady insinuated that it wouldn't still be there. It was fully paid for, and she siad they don't "send them anywhere". Don't they realize brides are already stressed enough without some nonsense like this on the side?

I found a great dress at DB for $350.00. It came in a couple of months ago. I didn't pick it up because we have no room here, and I was going to have them alter it anyway. So, being the last minute person that I am, I call them last week and get transferred to the alteration dept. This obnoxious older woman sneers into the phone "they called you 2 MONTHS AGO Geezzz, I hope its still here" and then rudely tells me the first appt available for a 1st fitting is in the middle of Sept. WTF?? Then, she goes on to tell me the hem alone will be $110 and the other stuff I want can be up to $300.00. Um hello? The dress was only $350.00 to begin with. Why are alterations there so expensive? What is the norm? I am ready to go snatch my dress up and bring it to Joe Blow the local tailor.

I originally wanted to get married in Hawaii. But the cost are triple what they would be in the Jamaica, plus theres that looooong 12 hour flight from the east coast. I think if it comes down to choosing one or the other, you will get most of the family at your wedding just because of that.

Hi again There are 3 different cities, one of them looks like it was mailed from a train station in NYC (if thats possible?) and none of the cities actually match the addresses on the guests addresses. I suppose we can narrow it down eventually, but it is still frustrating, especially since we are doing a seating chart. The hint about pre-marking the cards with a number sounds great. I hope all future brides do this! Seriously, how hard is it to fill this thing out properly (I'm still ranting, lol)

Hi, We also found Beaches Boscobel very reasonable. My mom's 6 night package in her basic family room came to about 850. I think that was with like 50% off.

Ok so is this just people I know or what We are having an AHR in a private room at a nice italian restaurant. I sent out printed beach themed invites, matching rsvp cards (self addressed and pre-stamped) and directions how to get there. We sent out about 75 invites. Well, we have gotten back 15 so far. Out of the 15, 3 have come back without a name or return address on the envelope, so we have no clue who these people are. The rsvp card is simple, write the name and how many people are attending, right? Some of these people have just checked "will attend" without saying how many people total. I have never seen anything like it. How hard is it to fill this thing out properly? Are we supposed to call everyone from these 3 postmarked cities and ask if they sent back their cards blank? What is wrong with people? I spent a ton on postage and printing, trying to make it easy on all the guests. I guess every-day ettiquette is lacking in my crowd. I have even recieved wedding invites over the years where the rsvp card isn't pre-stamped. No biggie, but how hard is it to write your name and a number??

I just ordered 6 tote bags from Vistaprint.com. They came out to $6.00 per bag with the 25% off. There is no minimum order or print fee (unless you just order the 1 free bag). I picked a palm tree-/sunset theme printed with Jamaica 2009. I think everyone will love them. Another plus with vistaprint, the more you order, the less per item. Play with their designs and see if you like them!

That's too bad.. Traditionally, showers are to be thrown by the bridal party and NOT family. Are your girls telling you no shower too? Well, my sister and 11yr old daughter are my only bridesmaids. I thought my family might throw something together, but nope.

Your Fiance' is responsible for handling this. He should tell them that he appreciates their concern, but he is happy with you and if they can't be happy and accept you as well, then they should stay home. Did anything happen in the past for them to say these things? Just curious.

Our travel agens said to stay away from Sandals Montego Bay because it is right by the airport, and you hear planes flying overhead all day & night.

3 hours? Oh well, scratch that idea. Too bad. Thanks ladies!