Quote: Originally Posted by Melwhip We had the same type of initial reaction from my fiance's mother. Finally, after about 5 months, she has come around once she realized that we were not going to change our minds.
One thing we are doing that I think may have helped is getting legally married here. We will keep that to immediate family only, and this way his grandmother will be able to attend this so I think that made his mom happy. Also this way we won't have to deal with the hassle of getting the documents translated into Spanish, etc.
Regarding passports, we made sure to put all of the information and links of how to obtain one on our website, hopefully that will help guests.
It can be tough, but stick to your guns and remember that ultimately, it's your and fiance's day! Hopefully they will come around. I guess we didn't do a good job of making it clear that we are getting married here first. I think I will mention that to both parents today. I will definitely let my immediate family members like my older aunts and uncles know as well.