Hello I am March 2009 at the RIU-Montego bay. I received my confirmation back in June and sent out my STD at that time as well. My invites are being worked on and I plan to send those out by the ending of October. My website was completed in early July and I have about 3/4 of my guests booked. We did a link into our wedding website so people can just go in any pay their installments at their leisure. Self-service! I have pretty much everything picked out (flowers, cakes, favors, photography, parasols, chair covers. sahes, all deco,e tc), I just have not ordered them yet. I am paralysed because at that point everything becomes final. I have selected my dress and will go to the boutique tomorrow to see how it looks and if that is a bust I have 2 back-up selections. I have been in touch with the hotel and reserved my Spa package, photography and sent samples of my cake.
There is still a TON of things to do and there is, however, in theory I have a lot of wheels churning simultaneously but have to put it altogether now.
Best of Luck!