I agree, it depends on your group of friends, your bridal party and where/what you do. I just got back from my bach. party on Monday. Myself and 15 of my gf's went to vegas for four nights. They paid for my hotel and my drinks and food all weekend. I think it costed everyone around $1000. These are all the same girls who are coming to my DW and noone complained about it. The girls who didnt want to pay, or couldnt afford to, just didnt come. Then again this was a trip for everyone and a vacation too.