Quote: Originally Posted by cmmdee When we got engaged 1.5 year ago, I said, that right after the wedding, I wanted to try for a baby. But now that it's 18 days away, I don't feel that way anymore. It is a HUGE thing. I know when I get pregnant and it happens, no big deal, but I guess I'm scared of the prospect of having kids and what a major thing that is. I sometimes feel like I'm alone in that sentiment since most people want to get pregnant the moment they wed. I'm just afraid cause I have never had a child or have never cared for one. I do want children some day and I'm sure it will happen when it's meant to. I'm sure it would be a great blessing in my life. But I am scared.
Does anyone else feel that way? Of course it is scary but you will do great!
I plan to come of my contraception just before the wedding. I don't want to get pregnant until after the wedding. I'm on a contraceptive implant so can not get pregnant until it is removed