I just got a bridal shower invitation and wedding invitation from a girl who I know through a friend .... actually I hardly know her .. I didn't even know who it was, when I got the invitation, for a few minutes cuz I never knew what her last name was! I think I've seen her maybe 4 times .... which im wondering why the hell she invited me (can you tell I get sick of (traditional) weddings and showers!)
anyways ... I'm not going to the shower or wedding (I already spent lots of money on concert tickets the night of the wedding ... so I'm going to the concert lol) ...but are you supposed to send a shower gift anyways or a card ...? I don't know what the proper etiquette is.
I'll probably have to come up with a lie to our common friend to prevent drama ... cuz going to a concert isn't really a good excuse to miss a wedding.
sorry for babbling