Quote: Originally Posted by JessicaLovesBrian I'm way late on this thread. But my sex drive usually wavers off after being with someone for awhile and that "new sex" feeling wears off. So DH and I definitely hit a lull where I was always like "Umm, yeah I have a headache or something, not tonight."
I barely wanted sex for about two years. I gotta say though, having Aiden was probably the best thing ever for our sex life. I don't know if it's horomnes or if it was 9 months of not having my body that made me so excited when I got it back again after popping Aiden out, but whatever it was... WHOA! I'm all about sex again now!
But it's not uncommon, especially when you've been with someone for awhile. You didn't have any discomfort the first couple times after you were cleared for action? My sister said it hurt (and was pretty awkward). She said it made her more nervous to try again because of that.