I have been wondering whether DW is a right choice that I made or not. Although we didn't want a big wedding, still when the turnout went from ~50 expressed interest to <20 booked, I was bumped. But then I thought about I will get to spend several days with a group of family/freiends who truly cared about us and will have a great fun with them I get excited again. Instead of having to entertain a big group of people, we'll get to mingle with everyone and build a stronger bond. I am at a point where I don't care about all the details, as long as I have a ceremony and reception location at the resort decided, everything else I'll worry about when I get there. (even my colors, I went from mange orange and sage green to any shades similar to those will be fine, I don't care). Your guests will have a great vacation regardless so don't worry too much about them not enjoying it!