My fiance is trying... or at least I want to think he is. I will tell him "look, I made this" or "I ordered this today" and he wants to see it all, but then I ask him for ideas and he doesn't have any. He really hasn't given me much input on anything either! I think it's just men, but it is their day too! I addresses all of the save-the-dates and asked him "did I forget anyone?" and of course his answer was no. I know he cares about the day, but maybe he just doesn't know what to do.