i don't know what to think of this girl...
we've been friends (through work) for a couple of years, we get along great, go out for drinks after work together, whatever...
so she was invited to our engagement party back in august...she rsvp'd and said she was coming, but didn't show up...fine i figured something must have come up last minute
she was invited to the wedding, she said she was coming for sure there was no way she'd miss it...she rsvp'd that she's coming....now she's saying that she's not
she was invited to my bach party and shower (both this weekend) and rsvp'd to both saying she's coming AGAIN...and today we find out that she's not coming to either of those either...
i really don't know what to think...she's not even giving any reasons why she's backed out of all this stuff, she has just changed her mind and is now saying no...should i take this personally and be upset by it or just shrug it off? i really don't know how to react