Quote: Originally Posted by akh not to butt in here - but isn't that one of those BIG decisions you should have made before getting married!!?? i think it's totally fine that you don't want to have kids - but i think you should sit down w/your FI and come to a resolution sooner rather than later! i know you didn't ask - but just my opinion!
oh i know....i've told him before (earlier on in our relationship) that i don't want kids so he at least knows that much, but he doesn't know that i haven't changed my mind!
the thing is, i don't think i could ever deny that from him ya know? so i know i'm gonna end up having kids, i just don't want them
and it's not even that i don't like kids, because i love kids, just the responsibility of them scares me
i'm still young though, so maybe i just don't have that "itch" yet...who knows
we have talked about having kids, it's not that we haven't approached the subject, i've just never flat out agreed to ever doing it