Quote: Originally Posted by dragonfly NO!!
Sorry I am a little ticked with Everton tonight, so ask me tomorrow, and maybe I will have a different answer. LOL Uh-oh.....never ask someone in the midst of an argument...lol Sorry, some days are like that but you know it will blow over.
We've lived together for years so after the engagement nothing changed except we were both super excited. No new fights, just an ever evolving understanding of the nature of men vs. women - i.e. he was content to pick the first invitation he saw whereas I needed options.
Compromise is key, even if that means you get the short end of the stick sometimes. Unfortunately that comes with the territory in serious relationships. It takes time but you'll get the right balance eventually.
In Psyc. of Marriage class I took years ago, it was said that the #2 predictor of a successful marriage is the willingness of both parties to attend counseling if need be. (#1 was decision to commit to each other exclusively) Maybe it's outdated but I think it holds true.
In the mean time, hang in there