After we drafted our first guest list we came up with a plan that does not include a best man or maid of honor. Our fathers would be our witnesses.
This idea came because my FI did not know who he could ask as his best man without hurting his other friends. As far as my bridal party goes I would take my sister as MOH but for many reasons am not sure she would even attend our wedding. If that were the case I would ask his sister to be MOH but I really don't want her to feel like she is plan B because i really do care about her, she's awesome.
My suggestion was that we ask our fathers to be our witnesses. That way everyone is on the ''same level'' as groomsmen and bridesmaids.
Does this make sense to anyone else? If it doesn't feel free to share... i'm brainstorming here!