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Originally Posted by Billandstina View Post

 

Yup...and we're paying for her flight...blows my mind!

 

Wow ladies, thanks for the laugh at work reading this thread! But honestly, I'm sorry for all the difficulties you're having.blink.gif  I'm in the beginning stages of planning (2014), so now I'm nervous!! lol

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Well it makes me feel a little better knowing that I am not the only one paying for my MIL... @ avonladee, I am with you not only will she not be getting us anything, everytime I see her I get a guilt trip about how she is doing this for "us" and how much she really doesnt even want to be there and is going to spend the whole week in her room, are you kidding me this trip is free for you get your head out of your a** and deal, oh please you have it so hard a free trip to Cuba to watch your son get married wo is me... and you know what if you hate it so much either a) dont come and deal with the fact that everyone will think that you are selfish or B) go shut up and put a fake smile on your face everytime you see me, or I will kill you LMAO ok a little harsh but I am annoyed!

 

Oh to vent and say it out loud as I type!

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Originally Posted by jolene028 View Post

 

Well it makes me feel a little better knowing that I am not the only one paying for my MIL... @ avonladee, I am with you not only will she not be getting us anything, everytime I see her I get a guilt trip about how she is doing this for "us" and how much she really doesnt even want to be there and is going to spend the whole week in her room, are you kidding me this trip is free for you get your head out of your a** and deal, oh please you have it so hard a free trip to Cuba to watch your son get married wo is me... and you know what if you hate it so much either a) dont come and deal with the fact that everyone will think that you are selfish or B) go shut up and put a fake smile on your face everytime you see me, or I will kill you LMAO ok a little harsh but I am annoyed!

 

Oh to vent and say it out loud as I type!

You go girl! Cause seriously I have def felt his way bout my mil PLENTY of times. Yes. I will cut you. Haha

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Originally Posted by jolene028 View Post

 

Well it makes me feel a little better knowing that I am not the only one paying for my MIL... @ avonladee, I am with you not only will she not be getting us anything, everytime I see her I get a guilt trip about how she is doing this for "us" and how much she really doesnt even want to be there and is going to spend the whole week in her room, are you kidding me this trip is free for you get your head out of your a** and deal, oh please you have it so hard a free trip to Cuba to watch your son get married wo is me... and you know what if you hate it so much either a) dont come and deal with the fact that everyone will think that you are selfish or B) go shut up and put a fake smile on your face everytime you see me, or I will kill you LMAO ok a little harsh but I am annoyed!

 

Oh to vent and say it out loud as I type!

I would be happy if she just stayed home!

We had to take her shopping to get a dress as well........ She is also asking where she will get spending money, and who will pay for her day trip.

It never ends!!!!!

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Wow!!!! Spending money??? Just wow!!! Good thing we're staying at an AI so hopefully we won't be hearing questions like that because I'm not so sure I'd be able to hold my tongue on that one!! "The same place I get my spending money...WORK"!! Lolol

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Originally Posted by Billandstina View Post

 

Wow!!!! Spending money??? Just wow!!! Good thing we're staying at an AI so hopefully we won't be hearing questions like that because I'm not so sure I'd be able to hold my tongue on that one!! "The same place I get my spending money...WORK"!! Lolol

Haha yep so true!!!!

She did not say it to us though, which is a good thing.

We are also staying in an AI, but she has friends there and will want to go visit them.

His brother said he didn't know what to get her for christmas, so we told him to give her money. And I said tell her to save it for Antigua, and not to spend it on anything else!

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Originally Posted by avonladee View Post

 

I would be happy if she just stayed home!

We had to take her shopping to get a dress as well........ She is also asking where she will get spending money, and who will pay for her day trip.

It never ends!!!!!

LOL that is what I was thinking...

 

we also put the clause in that we paid the deposit but not another cent until she gets her passport!

 

The worst part is that she doesnt even like me, she wishes that her son was marring a 50's housewife that cooked and cleaned and brought him his pipe and slippers when he gets home, does this even exsist anymore? It is beyond me, there is no way in the city I live in that one person can stay home it takes two incomes to live, plus that isnt me I dont want to stay home!

 

Oh well I keep telling myself that it will all work out the way it is supposed to. I can't believe that your wants spending money too, wow the nerve of some people!

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Originally Posted by jolene028 View Post

 

LOL that is what I was thinking...

 

we also put the clause in that we paid the deposit but not another cent until she gets her passport!

 

The worst part is that she doesnt even like me, she wishes that her son was marring a 50's housewife that cooked and cleaned and brought him his pipe and slippers when he gets home, does this even exsist anymore? It is beyond me, there is no way in the city I live in that one person can stay home it takes two incomes to live, plus that isnt me I dont want to stay home!

 

Oh well I keep telling myself that it will all work out the way it is supposed to. I can't believe that your wants spending money too, wow the nerve of some people!

Well tell her to suck it up buttercup lol, her son loves you and thats all that matters!

Be proud of yourself that you go to work everyday :)

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Well I thought we were similar before but now I know we're going through the same thing!! My future MIL hasn't gotten her passport either and is dragging her feet!! Which of course cost us more since only the expensive airlines tend to let you book without a passport number!! Infuriating!!

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