Originally Posted by Karen Luiza
So-turns out Im having 25-30 people come to the wedding. The wedding is on Friday, most people are coming Thursday until Sunday or Monday. Other than the ceremony, cocktail party and dinner/dancing....I was going to try to plan a golf outing and maybe a Cancun day. Is that enough? Do I need a welcome dinner/rehearsal? Or do I need activities daily. I dont want to impose on their vacations or make them feel like they have to stick with us the entire weekend. But I dont want to have an incohesive weekend and have people feel ignored. Opinions?
When we went for our wedding, we had given the guests an option of doing a group activity together. My wedding was on Friday with 30 guest as well and 20 of us decided to do the dolphin swim on the Saturday as it is on the resort and in the morning, so it left us with the rest of the day to do whatever we wanted.
I would suggest letting the guests decide what they want to do and go with the flow, so don't make a set schedule. It all works out in the end anyhow. Plus if most of you have smart phones, you can just msg eachother and coordinate times/places to meet. Most of our guests didn't want to follow a schedule, but at the end we all hung out and ate together for most of the trip.