Hey ladies, i need some SERIOUS help!!
I have been planning my DREAM destination wedding for over a year now, I have my dress, resort, flowers, std's, invitations, ATR venue, caterer, band, decorator... you name it! done, complete, just patiently waiting for the best day of my life.
I noticed I was late for my period, so sure enough I did an at-home test and it confirmed... IM PREGNANT!
the day I found out I was in tears, so many thoughts were going through my mind, can I still go to Jamaica? Can I wear my wedding dress? I cant celebrate and party with all my friends (Selfish I know)
I've always wanted children so there is no way i would even consider an abortion... such a bittersweet time, I cant even explain the emotions going through my mind... happiness and sadness.
Its been four days since I found out the news, things are better now... I'm getting excited to have a baby, I will be around 6 months when I get married.
Does anyone out there have any suggestions on what they would do in this situation? My wedding is booked for may 23-30, 2011. My at home reception is June 25 (ill be 7 months then)
Should I move my ATR until after the birth of the baby? I have confirmed that I will be able to fly up to 36 weeks as long as im healthy. I have over 30 people booked and my agent wont refund or change our deposits :S or should I keep the dates and events the same and just enjoy it with my bun in the oven?
So, Hit me up with some advice on what you DW bride to be's would do in this situation... its much needed on my end
I guess in the end it makes me giggle that our little baby just couldnt wait and wanted to share our special day somehow !