Originally Posted by TLGnhci
Lol! That's right. It's your day and you do what you want!!
I had one friend try to convince me to get married at Disney b/c she loves it there. But, she was just thinking about my guests. I'm like, hello, I'm thinking of my guests as well, and trying to keep the cost down. But, push come to shove, it's my day and as you said ~ come or don't come, I'm getting married on a beach and it's going to be great!
I read your comment and thought thank goodness I'm not the only one. My sister asked me to change the date because their flight leaves early the next day and they don't want to be tired and rushed. Oh, I'm sorry my wedding is getting in the way of your vacation. We actually picked our wedding , Good Friday, so that our friends could attend and not have to take a lot of time off work. When I told her this, she said "who?" and then followed it up with "well, if they don't come will you change it." I've always been told that it's the brides day, but apparently in my family it's always my sister's day.
And then today I reminded my dad that when they make their reservations they need to ask to be put in our wedding group. His response was that it was probably easier for me to do that and not expect people to ask. "Umm.... you're already on the phone with the resort!" So once again, sorry if our wedding is getting in the way of your vacation.
Thank goodness I have a wonderful FI that is supportive and keeps telling me to just ignore their comments. I work 6 days a week and am stuck at work anytime that I might be able to contact my WC. You would think that at least your parents would be a little helpful.