He wants out...
Posted 04 June 2010 - 02:46 PM
Posted 04 June 2010 - 03:01 PM
Posted 04 June 2010 - 03:04 PM
If it were me, I would put my wedding on hold until things are where they need to be between me and my fiance. I know it's hard but it just seems that his mind isn't right, right now. I think for a man, they want to be able to provide for their family and when the woman is "taking on the man role" they feel defeated. Like what is wrong with me? Why can't I get a job or why can't I take care of her? If you guys are really meant to be, things will work out. Ultimately, you are the one that knows him best. It could be that he's just overwhelmed or has a serious case of cold feet.
I wish you the best of luck and I hope that things work out for you in the end.
Posted 04 June 2010 - 03:05 PM
Posted 04 June 2010 - 03:26 PM
I love being a Mrs.!
Posted 04 June 2010 - 03:54 PM
Just use good communication with him and understand he's stressed, if he wants to marry you, you'll work it out. Good luck!
Posted 04 June 2010 - 04:15 PM
Posted 04 June 2010 - 04:24 PM
Posted 04 June 2010 - 04:25 PM
At the other ladies thanks for the support. We have 20 people booked so far and I cannot imagine having to postpone everything. That will not be fun because I know my family will not understand what he is going through.
What makes me so angry about it is that I ASKED him over and over after he lost his job. I supposed he thought he would be back on his feet by now. Even when I finished the invitations two months ago I asked "are you sure"...when I was at the mailbox putting them in I asked "are you sure".....he said yes...
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