I always send a gift if I am invited to a wedding or shower - whether I attend or not. However I think a lot of people do not do this - which is OK with me

do you give presents?
Started by 1elephant, Jul 27 2007 09:54 AM
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#21
Posted 27 July 2007 - 02:48 PM
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#22
Posted 27 July 2007 - 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted by CourtneyV I do if I'm close with them. I recently got invited to a wedding of a friend with whom I haven't spoken with in probably 5+ years. She had it listed on her website that presents are expected, even if you don't plan to attend the wedding! That pissed me off so much!! (I posted about it on this forum, of course). I didn't attend, and I didn't send a gift because I felt like I was just another invite for a gift! Otherwise, If I've spoken to the person ...recently, then of course! |
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#23
Posted 27 July 2007 - 04:23 PM
We always send a gift if we are invited whether it's an annivesary, shower, birthday or weddding, if we had an invite and can't make it we still acknowledge the importance of the occassion.
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#24
Posted 27 July 2007 - 05:54 PM
We always send a gift as well. Recently I have had friends tell me that they don't want to attend a certain party b/c they are broke and don't want to give a gift, but to me you should send a gift no matter what. I give a gift even if the person's family or bridal party states that they don't want gifts. I feel like everyone deserves a little something special on their special occasion.
#25
Posted 27 July 2007 - 06:03 PM
I don't always send a gift & I don't want everyone to send me gifts. We get several invites a month to weddings, kid's birthdays, showers, etc. They are all out of state for us, so we are not attending most of them. Some come from people who we haven't talked to in years & don't think we'll ever hear from again. I'm not going to blow my savings to send a gift to everyone.
#26
Posted 27 July 2007 - 09:55 PM
Which thread is that in
I do if I'm close with them. I recently got invited to a wedding of a friend with whom I haven't spoken with in probably 5+ years. She had it listed on her website that presents are expected, even if you don't plan to attend the wedding! That pissed me off so much!! (I posted about it on this forum, of course). I didn't attend, and I didn't send a gift because I felt like I was just another invite for a gift! Otherwise, If I've spoken to the person ...recently, then of course!