NO Father Daughter Dance?
Posted 07 July 2010 - 11:35 AM
Posted 08 July 2010 - 09:30 PM
| Originally Posted by mlabbe |
I like the idea of doing something more inventive to avoid the discomfort of a slow dance... although that might turn out to be harder for him if he doesn't really know how to dance.
Maybe you could have a dance the 4 of you at the same time, to take away all eyes on you and your dad, and let you FI have his dance with his mom?
I'm skipping the father / mother dances, solves it for us!
Posted 16 July 2010 - 12:34 PM
Posted 16 July 2010 - 01:13 PM
Posted 21 July 2010 - 11:57 PM
Posted 09 September 2010 - 02:37 PM
Id never even thought about this. However, we only have a very small wedding party, 6 in total so i wont even be having a first dance with my husband in the actual day. We will save that for out reception back in the UK. I am like you and dont have a touchy feely kind of relationship with my dad, anything like dancing would feel so weird for the both of us i think. The only way around that would be if i was drunk and then i wouldnt think anything of it. Shame its like that with our own father isnt it, but when its been like that for so many years you cant just change.
Posted 18 November 2010 - 09:23 AM
I think it would mean a lot to him if you did... even if everything isn't perfect,
Posted 04 December 2010 - 02:25 PM
I'm not doing one. Neither myself or my dad dance so it would be silly and awkward.
Posted 07 December 2010 - 08:35 AM
If you definately don't want to dance with your dad, that's your choice and there's nothing wrong with that. No one should put you in a situation where you are uncomfortable. That being said, don't ask your FI to do a faster dance with his mom. I'm sure this is something very important to him (and his mom) and you don't want him to resent you. This is a tough situation. If it does turn into a problem I would just get through dancing for 3 minutes with your Dad (it really isn't torture!)
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