"Good Friend" bails out of wedding to get a dog?
Posted 13 March 2010 - 02:06 PM
It's been a while since I posted and reading some of the other reviews is really helping me to feel better, but today I got another blow. One of my suppossed good friends told me she couldn't come to my wedding because she couldn't afford it and so forth. Well, today I find out that she just spent about $700 to get a dog. I didn't think anything of it until she said, I hope your not mad and thinking I had money to spend on a dog and not come to your wedding, but I've been depressed and I think this will help me alot. I can understand that. Then she says she might not be able to come to the bachelorette party (which is out of town) because she doesn't trust her neighbor to keep her new dog. I'm not quite sure how to feel at this point. Do I banish a friend out of my life over this or take this lemon and make lemonade? I'm so confused about how people really feel about me.
Posted 13 March 2010 - 03:37 PM
I would say don't take it personal. Just go ahead and enjoy your wedding planning, make lemonade out of the lemons that she has served you, and when she is ready, she'll discuss with you what is making her depressed and why she acted the way she did. I hope this helps. Good luck, Aisha
Posted 13 March 2010 - 04:25 PM
I didn't think of it that way. Maybe I shouldn't take it personally and just let it be.
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