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#11 kayr

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    Posted 16 February 2010 - 11:12 AM

    Yes definately include your son and give hime and an 'important' role in your day. My daughters are much older than your little boy (they're 14 and 16) but they will be very involved, starting off with giving me away. My FI children are grown up and although they had booked to come with us, they are both now pregnant so won't even be there, which we are both upset about but I guess it cant be helped

    #12 mrs.timpone

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      Posted 16 February 2010 - 11:47 AM

      I have two boys from my previous relationship and I wanted to make sure I included them in our wedding. My boys are 8 and 5. They will be walking me down the aisle and giving me away. I wanted to make sure they feel a part of the wedding since this effects their life too, and after all their approval of my fiance was the most important part! They adore my future husband and he adores them! When I told them they will be giving Mommy away they were so excited and can not wait till the day comes! I will also make them part of the sand ceremony!.....just a few ideas for ya!

      #13 Raykel

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        Posted 16 February 2010 - 11:59 AM

        I was at a wedding this summer and the bride's son (who was actually from a previous relationship) walked his mom down the aisle. I think he is about 7 years old...it was so beautiful. I know your little guy is younger but you should make him a part in whatever way will be special to all of you - it is your wedding and you can do whatever you want on your special day.

        Good luck!

        #14 Stina4242

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          Posted 17 February 2010 - 09:11 AM

          I don't think this fits your situation because it probably works better when the son is from another man but I LOVE when the little boy gives the mom away. I don't know why I just think it's the cutest thing. Definatly include him. By the time he is old enough to know you "should have" been married before you had him he will be old enough to know 2007 was before 2010 (his year of birth and the year you get married). I wouldn't worry about that just include the cutie!

          #15 steponmyknee

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            Posted 17 February 2010 - 01:08 PM

            My FI has two sons, age 9 and 11. They're going to escort my mom down the aisle, then stand next to their dad for the ceremony. My 12 year old niece is going to be my maid of honor. The 3 kids are the only members of our bridal party. The boys are going to wear shorts and beachy shirts, and my niece is wearing a pretty blue dress.

            #16 **~Linda~**

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              Posted 17 February 2010 - 01:41 PM

              My son was one of the ring boys... we had my nephew and him be ring boys and my cousins baby girl and my other bridesmaids baby boy(who i love) be the flower girl and hes gentleman :).. Too cute!

              #17 Megan24

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                Posted 17 February 2010 - 06:24 PM

                These are all great ideas. There we would be no dought in my mind to include my son in the wedding if he was not my FI son . Which does not really make any sense. lol. But thanks for all your tips and kind words.
                I am thinking he will be the ring bearer. We might be fishing the ring out of the sand or ocean but it will be a cute story.

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