MOH who says shes coming but still no response..
Posted 15 November 2009 - 08:36 PM
I had asked my friend 3 months ago to be my MOH, after her telling me she was def. coming to Cuba, she was super excited couldnt wait to come.
Now....one month after deposit deadline and with only 3 seats left on our plane with our group rate.....no responses from her anymore...
I have known her for like 7 yrs now..donno what the hell is up..
it all began a few weeks ago, she told me she was coming to our halloween party, and she never came...or called...saw on facebook 2 days earlier that she was sick so I assumed she was sick...right? next thing I know..theres full of party pics of her on facebook partying it out in a club at a halloween party...that was odd..but didnt really bug me..thought...well maybe she felt bad,didnt know how to tell me.....who knows,still figured she could have told me so I texted her just saying "hey i thot u were gonna come to our party what happened?" no response..........
a week later, deposit deadling now overdue by a week..i thought maybe she feels ackward and cannot afford it..so let me make her feel comfy and let her know that if she cannot make it afterall that it is fine........no response......
one week later; she messages me; sorry ive had a cold i will call you tonight
no call...no msg...nothing
what the f*** is going on
the way i see it,i dont have a MOH or a friend anymore.....
Posted 15 November 2009 - 08:52 PM
Posted 15 November 2009 - 09:02 PM
but she did all this before saying yes...and she told me she would be fine..financially..i regret asking her to be my MOH...i took her off my guest list on our wedsite....
ive called..she doesnt answer...and on msn she doesnt reply..
Posted 15 November 2009 - 09:09 PM
Posted 15 November 2009 - 09:21 PM
I would totally try to contact her again, not mentioning the wedding...just to meet for drinks or something. That way you can find out what is going on in her life and talk about things. Good luck and let us know how it goes!
Posted 16 November 2009 - 12:29 AM
Posted 16 November 2009 - 12:52 AM
I hope it all works out. Weddings have a way of helping us figure out what (and who) matters.
Posted 16 November 2009 - 02:28 AM
Posted 16 November 2009 - 10:22 AM
So I know how you feel. I would contact her and ask her if she is able to come.
Posted 16 November 2009 - 10:39 AM
Personally, I would assume that for one reason or another, she's not going to make it to your wedding. But I wouldn't read into it. Chances are that there's some reason and it just won't work out. She's probably hiding from you because she feels badly and doesn't want to have to tell you. Best bet at this point is to promote one of your BMs.
So, the question is whether her inability to attend is enough reason to break off your friendship. Good friends are hard to come by, but bad friends are found everywhere. I can't possibly know which camp she's in at the moment, but maybe just let things be for a while and see if you can rekindle your friendship when the pressure around the wedding is off.
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