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#1 Cattie

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    Posted 17 May 2009 - 08:00 PM

    So we've received a few cards in the mail. Mainly from family from over sea's. Do we have to send a TY card even if we didn't get a gift? I don't want the family to get all upset we didn't send them a TY.

    #2 Jess

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      Posted 17 May 2009 - 09:01 PM

      hmmm good question - if it is just a card I don't think so but I'm not positive on this

      #3 BachataBride

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        Posted 17 May 2009 - 09:23 PM

        I did not have any cards without a gift/money inside. But I think I would still send a TY card to let them know their thoughtfulness is appreciated. I am giving TY cards to people who sent us gifts as well as the people who came with us to DR whether they gave a gift or not.
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        #4 ~*Lisa*~

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          Posted 22 May 2009 - 06:39 PM

          That is a good question! looking forward to hearing more opinions.

          #5 itsfinallyhere

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            Posted 22 May 2009 - 07:16 PM

            I too have to say send them. If they are going to the trouble of acknowledging you on your special day, I would like to thank them. Not everyone is going to be able to make it for whatever reason. But if they are sending you good wishes it would be bad manners and karma not to thank them. Really is it that much of an incovience?

            #6 ~Nicole~

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              Posted 22 May 2009 - 07:23 PM

              I don't think that someone would expect a thank you card for that, but it would be a nice gesture IMO. I say if its in your budget it would be a good idea, and if not, like I said, I don't think people "expect it.
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              #7 Jen_S

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                Posted 23 May 2009 - 09:05 AM

                I also agree with the others I would send them one since they took the time to send you and your new hubby one.
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                #8 jk1101

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                  Posted 23 May 2009 - 11:24 AM

                  So you got cards just congratulating you on your marriage, but with no gift? I'm not sure have to send people a Thank you card for a "Congratulations" but if you feel like they're going to be upset if you don't (we all have those people in our families) then go ahead and send one.

                  #9 DarcyJAde

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                    Posted 23 May 2009 - 11:37 AM

                    Seems a little crazy sending a card for a card? kind of like thank you for the thank you, lol. Do it ONLY if its in your budget, otherwise a verbal thank you should do.

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                    #10 *Nadine*

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                      Posted 26 May 2009 - 01:03 PM

                      I agree with Darcy. A card to thank for sending a card? Are they going to then send one back saying thank you for your thank you card? Lol Ok that was silly I know. But I don't think I would send a thank you for a card, just for a gift. Unless you have a big budget and extra time and its not a hinderence to you :)

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