Crazy Crazy Crazy Bridesmaid!!!
Posted 17 April 2009 - 11:55 PM
I would make sure that gets to know some of the other guests really well so that she feels comfortable bombarding them with questions instead of just you. And make sure you keep a sense of humor when dealing with her - you obviously consider her a really good friend if you made her a bridesmaid and when you look back at your wedding you are going to want to remember all the good memories with her not the parts where she drove you insane
Posted 19 April 2009 - 07:54 PM
Sounds to me like she is more focused on the "vacation for her" aspect than the WEDDING FOR YOU part. I'd remind her. Something simple like, "Hey, since it's our wedding theres gonna be a lot of stuff that I have to tend to since I'm the one responsible for having all these people go so far out of their way. I'm cool with you planning whatever because it's your vacation too, so as long as you show up for the wedding, go crazy and have fun. But you'll have to leave me out of the planning for that because I can't promise anything til we're there."
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Posted 20 April 2009 - 01:16 PM
| Originally Posted by BBtoB |
Wow...you have your hands full. So is she going by herself? Can't she go off and do her thing? She is too funny! You would think it was her wedding with all the details. haha I guess you just have to laugh...entertaining fo sho!
Posted 20 April 2009 - 01:24 PM
So some other friends had a BBQ this weekend and she came to the BBQ. She had gone to Walmart earlier in the day and dropped $200 for the trip....jeez...this is what she bought:
Because she read about it on Trip Advisor:
2-3 pillows since the resort ones are hard. She will leave these behind.
2 beach towels because they have cute stuff on 'em, and the ones we have for the OOT bags are plain....
2 bath towels since she thinks they won't give her enough
4 washcloths since they do not give them out (according to TA)
4 sull sized shampoos and conditioners
Gosh there was also something funny....Oh yeah, she bought a TON of snack foods so that she doesnt have to buy them in the gift shop (things like Pringles).
Again this is an AI. You are bound to find snacks. You really need to spend $60 on snacks to pack? I think this girl may be bringing more luggage than me ;-)
Oh and she had the nearve to make fun of me for the 6 bathing suits that I own and am bringing with me. (a)3 of them are old (b)I am spending 2 weeks in the carribean between the wedding and the cruise honeymoon!!
Oh she bought me some water shoes (kinda nice!!!) from Walmart. But then she proceeded to tell me how hers are WAY better than mine and she spent $50 on them from overstock and how I should have gone this route but I am out of time.
So that was my weekend with her I still love her though!
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