BIL newly engaged and getting married FIRST!
Posted 24 March 2009 - 09:23 AM
I knew hos older brother (who is divorced) got engaged over Valentine's day, but they set the wedding for June 28th, 2009!!!! This really bugs me!! It's going to be a small wedding, and I am not even sure I can make it. I have to work that weekend, and only get 1 weekend off every 6 months which I am already using for my HONEYMOON. Don't get me wrong, I really like his brother, but a few weeks ago he was giving us a hard time about the cost of coming to our wedding. He's also the BM!! WTF
Posted 24 March 2009 - 09:39 AM
Posted 24 March 2009 - 02:25 PM
I don't know, I just think it's a little rude to cut in front of your brother's wedding like that.
Posted 24 March 2009 - 03:04 PM
I agree, that is pretty rude but try not to get too worked up about it. I mean of course vent to us, that's why we're here but don't let it interfere with the happiness of your own wedding.
I've come to the conclusion during my whole DW experience thus far that people will just do what THEY want! We can't control it and they will always have something to complain about...no matter how generous you're being. Try to keep your chin up!
Posted 24 March 2009 - 03:11 PM
I'm sure it wont take away from your wedding. Your having a DW which will be a lot different than this.
Posted 24 March 2009 - 03:17 PM
Why do BIL's kids need to come? Are they in the wedding? What would happen if BIL didn't come? Are you still expected to pay for the kids to go?
You need to have a real sit down, heart to heart with BIL and find out if he will commit (and this means giving you a check) to being in your wedding. If you can get the business out of the way, you will be able to enjoy both weddings.
Posted 24 March 2009 - 03:58 PM
Posted 24 March 2009 - 04:34 PM
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