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I knew my high would come down....

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#11 ylopez87

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    Posted 02 January 2009 - 02:56 AM

    I'm so sorry for your loss. It's ok to feel guilty but she would want you to have your special day and maybe you can have some kind of memorial for her at your wedding. Hope you feel better.

    #12 becks



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      Posted 02 January 2009 - 10:51 AM

      I'm so sorry to hear of your loss!

      Lots of the ladies here have lost a loved one during their engagements and planning. Take some time to grieve. That's the best advice I can give you.

      Big hugs!

      Happily married since 2008

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      #13 cbohern

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        Posted 02 January 2009 - 11:18 AM

        I am so sorry for your loss. I know it is hard to get away from work, but try to make a little time for yourself

        #14 sunset78

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          Posted 02 January 2009 - 04:35 PM

          Sorry about your loss, and it's understandable to feel guilty about feeling any joy at this moment. It will get better in time, and your friend would have want you to be happy while you're planning for your day.

          #15 *Casey*

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            Posted 02 January 2009 - 04:54 PM

            I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. It's never easy, but as time goes by each day will get just a little bit better.

            #16 TAHOEJENI

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              Posted 07 January 2009 - 03:35 AM

              Sorry for your loss - I too experienced some of that Saturday. We were leaving the house to go dress shopping when a friend called me from another state sobbing uncontrollably asking my opinion on a health issue with her 1 year old foster dog. (We both foster for Weimaraner Rescue). She put him down later that day.

              I believe it is times like those that keep me humble.

              #17 Jess

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                Posted 07 January 2009 - 01:35 PM

                I'm so sorry for your loss.

                I know it is hard to feel guilty at this time - but I am sure your friend would want nothing more than to see you happy planning your wedding.

                Our thoughts are with you

                #18 YoursTruly

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                  Posted 07 January 2009 - 03:23 PM

                  Wow I am so sorry to hear about that. Definitely a blow to your emotions but I am sure your friend would want ou to be happy ultimately and celebrate and cherish the good memories. Will keep you in my prayers.


                  #19 chicklet

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                    Posted 07 January 2009 - 03:27 PM

                    Sorry to hear about your loss. You are at a very exciting time in your life and your friend would want you to enjoy it. Maybe there is a way you can do something to remember her at your wedding?

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